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In Memory of Michael Jackson : the King of Pop

Michael Joseph Jackson (born 29th August 1958) was a gifted child, a born entertainer. He started his career with his elder brothers and was managed by his father, They were known as The Jackson 5. Even though this group was doing well, All eyes were on the little child in the front.

He started his solo career and started his journey to Success, he was the first African-American to have such a great fan following and in his late teens he was known and loved all over the world by millions. More...

Michael Jackson Dies June 25, 2009

The news of Michael Jackson dying on June 25, 2009 has stunned the nation. The calls, text messages, emails, tweets and conversations began to spread across the world as the shocking news was relayed of Michael's untimely death. Michael Jackson born August 29, 1958 was in his Los Angeles home at the time when the paramedics were called. Michael was not feeling well the day before and his doctor had even been out to check on him. The next day Michael was found not breathing and paramedics unfortunately could not revive him. It is believed he has died of cardiac arrest. More...

Michael Jackson's Skin Cancer

The King of Pop is not without problems. With the many controversies of him suffering from skin cancer and the faking of his skin turning from black to white, Michael Jackson is suffering from the potentially fatal disease of skin cancer. Jackson has been enduring many treatments to get rid of the cancer spreading on his skin. With scrapings of his chest and nose already completed, the King of Pop is not in the clear yet. The surgeries are even conflicting with his comeback tours.

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Comments are the backbone of the social web. Everything is going social if it has not already been that way for some time. Why is that? People are social by nature. It's how we communicate. It's how we learn. It's how we teach. Do you find comments to be valuable resources? Share your thoughts.

Conversations are built upon comments going back and forth and branching out in new directions, taken from one channel to the next. As the web as a whole has become more social, the conversation has gotten larger and it has become easier for anyone to get involved at a growing number of destinations, whether you join in the comments on a blog post, a Twitter stream, a Facebook News Feed, an email , a Googl e result (courtesy of SearchWiki), IMDB, a forum, a YouTube video, etc. The web has never been as connected as it is now, and it is only becoming more so each time any service rolls out a new sharing feature. Facebook launched Facebook Connect, Digg launched the Diggbar, somebody launched the Shareaholic Firefox add-on, etc. These are just a few examples of thousands of content sharing tools.

There is value in conversation. I'm sure you've heard of the wisdom of crowds. Is every blogger an authority on something? No. Are all bloggers the authority on the subject of each of their posts? Of course not. That's why commenting is an option.

Comments add value for the reader. If a blogger is wrong about something (or even if he is not, but there is some debate), there are comments there to at least provide different views. Readers can then take these in with the original post and use their own judgment to reach their own conclusion, or use it as reason to further research the topic. Either way, they are getting value out of it because they are not taking one person's word for it.

When you're talking about a blog, or a news site, or really any kind of content site, comments add value. They don't just add vale for the re ader, but for the publisher as well. WebProNews recently conducted an interview with James Smith, Chief Revenue Officer for the Huffington Post, a very popular social news site. In fact, James attributes the site's success to being social. He says the site currently logs over a million comments a month.

"The reason I like to read HuffingtonPost is because of the comments - it makes it feel so much more community based AND the comments are refreshed quite quickly," writes Susan, commenting on a WebProNews post looking at the interview (and adding value to that post of course). In the above clip, Smith talks about some types of things that attract people to want to "dive into" content. He mentions polls, images, and most popular stats, like showing the most popular news stories, and how many comments they have. Readers see hot topics of conversation, and often feel more compelled to look at that content because they have an indication that it has generated some interest.

Of course this helps page views, which can help advertising, and so on and so forth. This benefits everyone involved. Advertisers get more clicks. Publishers get more money from advertisers. Readers get more valuable con tent - not only from the comments, but because if the publisher is doing well financially, they'll be able to keep providing the content. Everybody wins. Furthermore, the publisher will be more inclined to post on subjects of interest, because they will attract comments, and the cycle continues. Sometimes readers need a little push for commenting (which is why you'll often see comment links scattered throughout WebProNews content). It's simply a call to action for added value for all parties. Blogger Neville Hobson has a nice list of tips you can use to encourage comments.

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You know he’s not Mr. Right. He’s not even Mr. Right Now. So why can’t a smart woman like you ditch the loser? Read on to find out. Plus, are you just not that into him? Rate your relationship with our quiz…
I was in college when an older man asked me out. We went to a concert (nice). Then back to his place (predictable). By morning, I knew the relationship was a non-starter.
But his attention was flattering, and I was between boyfriends. Before I knew it, my one-night event turned into a year-long relationship. He even talked of marriage.
Right then, I should have cut and run. But I’d grown used to his loud, obnoxious behavior. And at least I had a date on Saturday nights.
I didn’t get my complacent butt out of there until he raised his hand to smack me during a disagreement. Though his hand never connected with me, that near-slap was just the push I needed.
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Terminator Salvation is a 2009 American science fiction post-apocalyptic war film released on May 21, 2009 in the United States, June 3, 2009 in the UK, and June 4, 2009 in Australia. Directed by Joseph "McG" McGinty Nichol, it is the fourth film in the Terminator series and stars Christian Bale as John Connor, before becoming leader of the Resistance, and Sam Worthington as Marcus Wright, a cyborg who believes he is human. It also introduces a young version of the first film's hero, Kyle Reese, played by Anton Yelchin, and depicts the origins of the T-800 Model 101 Terminator, played by Arnold Schwarzenegger and Roland Kickinger. Being both a sequel and a prequel to the previous films, Salvation, set in 2018, focuses on the war between humanity and Skynet. It abandons the time travel element of previous entries in the series, which centered on Terminators and other characters traveling through time to either kill or protect John Connor before the events of Judgment Day unfold.

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You know he’s not Mr. Right. He’s not even Mr. Right Now. So why can’t a smart woman like you ditch the loser? Read on to find out. Plus, are you just not that into him? Rate your relationship with our quiz…
I was in college when an older man asked me out. We went to a concert (nice). Then back to his place (predictable). By morning, I knew the relationship was a non-starter.
But his attention was flattering, and I was between boyfriends. Before I knew it, my one-night event turned into a year-long relationship. He even talked of marriage.
Right then, I should have cut and run. But I’d grown used to his loud, obnoxious behavior. And at least I had a date on Saturday nights.
I didn’t get my complacent butt out of there until he raised his hand to smack me during a disagreement. Though his hand never connected with me, that near-slap was just the push I needed.
Any sign of abuse (physical or emotional) is an obvious deal-breaker. And the same goes for addictions of any stripe (drugs, alcohol, sex, gambling, porn). But even without such problems, we often find ourselves spinning our wheels in dead-end relationships. Why do smart women make such foolish choices?
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1. My family made me do it.
Blaming your issues on Mom, Dad, your siblings or the dog can get a little tired. But persistently picking Mr. Wrong does have a lot to do with your upbringing, therapists say.
“What happens in the family shapes how we see ourselves in the world, our core beliefs and our behaviors,” says life/relationship coach Lauren Mackler, author of Solemate: Master the Art of Aloneness and Transform Your Life (Hay House). “Then we take those behavior patterns into adulthood.”
So a girl who grew up thinking I don’t deserve love is subconsciously attracted to men who can’t meet her emotional needs. “It doesn’t make her happy, but it’s comfortable because it’s familiar,” Mackler says.
It’s the emotional equivalent of the hamster wheel: You never get the guy, no matter how hard you work. But the thought that you might – if you just hang on a little longer – keeps you in the game.
“Women are willing to deal with long stretches of crap for that momentary approval or affection,” explains clinical psychologist Dennis P. Sugrue, Ph.D., co-author of Sex Matters for Women (Guilford Press). “When it comes – and it’s not often – the attention is almost like oxygen. It means everything.”

2. I won’t find anyone better.
So he’s boorish and overly critical. Breaks dates. Doesn’t call. Plays head games. Forgets your birthday. But he’s all yours. Would it be any different with anyone else?
Hello?!? Someone’s self-esteem needs a transfusion.
Blame this one, too, on a dysfunctional family dynamic.
When a woman is in a relationship with a clear loser, there’s a symbolic agenda playing out, “usually not getting the love and affection of a parent,” Sugrue says. “So when things don’t go well, it becomes easier for her to rationalize it and take the blame for it.”
This settling-for-less pattern is one of the more destructive ways women sabotage themselves in work and in relationships, says clinical psychotherapist Pat Pearson, author of Stop Self-Sabotage: Get Out of Your Own Way to Earn More Money, Improve Your Relationships and Find the Success You Deserve (McGraw Hill).
“If we don’t believe we deserve to have a good relationship, we settle for less than what we could have or truly want,” she says. “We compromise our own integrity.”
We think, Well, it’s better than nothing.

3. I don’t want to be alone.
Then there’s the fear that you’ll end up a lonely spinster. So you hang on longer than you should out of a misguided sense of self-preservation.
Chalk this one up to family issues again, especially if the message you internalized growing up was, “You need a man to take care of you.”
“Fear of being alone is a huge factor that keeps people in bad relationships,” says Mackler, the life/relationship coach. “The underlying message is that you’re not able to take care of yourself.”
So you get into relationships with Mr. Wrong.

4. He’ll change.
Uh-huh. Tell it to the Tooth Fairy. Women have been deluding themselves with this particular fairy tale since cave gals sat around the fire pit, grousing that their men were such Neanderthals.
Don’t bet the farm on him changing in any substantial way. Improving hair and wardrobe is about the best you can do. (Though you might make some headway with the toilet-seat-down thing.)
But serious character flaws? Figure on living with ’em... or leaving him.
“What you see is what you’re going to get,” Sugrue says. “If there is change, consider that to be a gift from heaven. But don’t count on it.”

5. He needs me.
If ever there was a big enough ball to keep you chained to a loser, it’s this one. We love being needed. We eat that up like a chocolate chip hot fudge sundae with a cherry on top.
“Women tend to over-give to people who don’t give as much back,” says Pearson, the clinical psychologist. “We’ve all been taught that we shouldn’t be selfish and to keep on giving even if we don’t get it back.”
We tell ourselves we’re indispensable. Or maybe you do have legitimate worries that if you split, he’d gamble, drink, slide into depression or kill himself.
But what you call “love,” therapists label as “co-dependency,” “enabling,” or “emotional extortion.”
We’re then sucked into unhealthy relationships because “we’re serving in their lives in some way that makes us feel good about ourselves,” explains Michele Sugg, a certified sex therapist in Branford, Conn. “It can be tough to move past the guilt and believe that he’ll make it, that you’re not his only lifeline.”

6. The sex is phenomenal.
That hormonal surge of oxytocin that courses through your brain when you have mind-blowing sex is designed to bond you to your partner. It’s emotional super-glue. But this neuro shemistry can backfire when we bond with the wrong guy.
“Just because it was the best sex you ever had doesn’t mean that this is the best partner for you,” says certified sex therapist and psychologist Stephanie Buehler, Psy.D, of the Buehler Institute for sex therapy in Irvine, Calif.
And if you feel embarrassment or shame about becoming sexual too quickly, you might be tempted “to make a relationship out of the encounter,” Buehler says.
Should You Stay or Go – Now?
These steps can get you thinking – honestly – about the state of your union.

1. Search your soul. Ask yourself these questions, Sugrue says:
# Do I really care about this person or has the relationship become habit?
# Is it easier to stay than make the effort to leave?
# Do I feel like he really cares for me? Or am I doing all the heavy lifting?
# If someone else I’m attracted to is suddenly available and I could get out of my current relationship with no negative consequences, embarrassment, shame or explanations, would it be tempting? If you’re thinking maybe, “that should tell you something,” Sugrue says.

2. Make a list. Works with Christmas gifts and relationships.
“Sometimes it’s helpful to reflect on the things you feel are working in your relationship and the things that aren’t,” Sugg says. “That can help you determine what needs to change for the relationship to feel healthier for you.”
So make like Santa and check your list twice. And talk it over with your guy. Maybe he didn’t realize that openly flirting with other women gets on your nerves. It’s unlikely, but at least you’ve done your due diligence before you walk out.

3. Get online. If you just don’t think you can do any better, click through some online dating sites. You don’t even need to post a profile. Just punch in your zip code and take a look at who’s around. Nice guys! Near you!
It’s the relationship equivalent of window-shopping. Not all these dudes will pony up to ride into the sunset with you. But even if you’re convinced the sea is empty, you’ll see there are plenty of fish out there.


4. Take a break. Absence can make the heart grow fonder... or show you that you’re doing just fine without him. Either way, you get some perspective, Buehler says.

5. Hold off on hooking up. No judgment here. Casual, no-strings-attached sex definitely has its place. However, “It’s important to look at what you’re trying to get when you’re hooking up,” Sugg says.
If you want to meet your dream man and live happily ever after, but all you’re doing is hooking up, “that’s not the way you’re going to form lasting relationships,” Sugg says.

6. Do a reality check. If you worry that ditching an unsatisfying relationship will leave you alone forever, stuck in a singledom apartment, or possibly even destitute, take a deep breath and step back from the ledge.
Therapists call this “awfulizing” or “catastrophizing.” Mackler says you’re playing the Gloom and Doom Movie by imagining the absolute worst-case scenario, and it’s spinning in your mind as reality. So take stock.
“Look at the core beliefs you have about yourself that’s driving this fear,” she says.
Do you actually believe you’ll die without someone to take care of you? What about those friends and family who love you? And don’t you have your own money to pay those bills?
Looks like an apartment full of cats isn’t your destiny after all. And you’re doing pretty well fending for yourself. Soon you’ll get your brain around the idea that you can jump ship if you want to – and land on your feet.
Then you can start thinking about what your new movie will look like, Mackler says. Perhaps the screen will show that you can be happy without a relationship. Or that the next guy you date will appreciate and respect you.
Roll tape…
Are You Just Not That Into Him?
Many people stay in relationships because they are convenient or comfortable. Some men are just meant to be friends. Do you know the difference? Take this quiz and find out whether you're into him or not.




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